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oblazie Profile Information

Looking for the right man
Age 52 From Portland, Oregon - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English, Japanese
I Would Describe Myself As  
Separated, soon to be divorced, single mother of one 6 year old son living with me. I do have 3 grown children not living at home.

I like all types of music and I love horror movies and anime as well as dramas and lots of international film. Pan's Labyrinth is a fave.

I am a student a PSU majoring in Japanese Language with the hopes of either living in Japan as a teacher of ESL or working somewhere in the US as an interpreter/translator. (Note: I am only a first-year Japanese Language student, so I'm not anywhere near fluent)

I have been interested in Japanese culture since grammar school, but have recently become interested in Pan Asian cultures. Teach me about your culture!

I'm of mixed ancestry, so I really don't have a "true culture" to speak of. I guess mostly Caucasian, African American and Native American would be my ancestry, but I guess that just makes me American! :)

I am looking for someone who I can have fun with. I'm open to making platonic friends as well. I would like to meet an Asian man (American born or Immigrant) who I can have fun with and cuddle with and talk with and eat with.

I'm very tall at 5'8", so it would be great if you were okay with that. I do prefer a man taller than me, or at least as tall as I am. I prefer the look of the single lidded eye. I do prefer that you be somewhat in shape even though I'm not in the best shape myself right now. I don't expect perfection and a little chubbiness is perfectly fine with me, but a willingness to work out together is a plus because I find that having someone to be accountable to helps me to work out more regularly. I'm pretty open minded on looks, so if you don't fit that exactly, don't despair. Personality fit is more important to me. Do you like to cook? I enjoy cooking too! Let's cook together.

On another note, I'm not looking for a father for my son because he has one, but someone who is okay with a 6 year old boy being around is definitely going to be a good thing since my son is with me most of the year. During the summer, he goes to his dad's family.

I love to read, write and I am an excellent singer! I love karaoke! I enjoy drinking and partying to a reasonable extent, but haven't been out and about much since I've been in school since I moved to Portland in 2011. Do you know the area? Are you willing to show me around? I would love to get out sometime.

I do have tattoos and a couple of piercings (nothing intense) and actually, I hope to get more of both.

You may not be a smoker! This one is a definite rule for me! I quit 2 years ago and I want nothing to do with smoking or anyone who smokes! I can't stand the smell since I quit!

Please don't come to me smelling of marijuana smoke. I don't care if you imbibe, but I don't like the smell. I prefer if you use a vaporizer because that doesn't make any smell. Just my preference.
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Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is  
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are  
Brown
My Ethnicity Is  
African American, European, Native American
My Marital Situation Is  
Separated
I Have Kids  
Yes - At Home
I Want Kids  
No
My Best Feature Is  
Eyes
Body Art  
Scarred, Strategically Placed Tattoo, Visible Tattoo, Other
My Hair Is  
Black
I Have One Or More Of These  
Cat
Willing To Relocate  
No

Status

My Education Level Is  
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Student
My Speciality Is  
Administrative / Management
I Make This Much In A Year  
Less Than $14,999USD
I Live  
With Kid(s), With Pet(s)
At Home  
It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Outcast
My Social Behavior Is  
Anti-social, Comedic, Dark, Flirtatious, Friendly, Outgoing, Shy, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Dining, Family, Internet, Games, Learning, Movies, Music, Reading, Tv
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Going to a museum, or out for lunch or coffee. Maybe a movie and dinner.
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Lots of things... make a suggestion...
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Cool, Goofy

Views

My Religion Is  
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services  
Never
My Political Views Are  
I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is  
To own a successful business that fits into my interests. Perhaps an anime viewing room with a connected snack shop and book/music/video store. Kind of an all around (I hate to call it this, but...)anime otaku shop for young people to hang out at. A safe place for teens/tweens to hang out and watch anime with their friends and be able to purchase DVDs, Jpop/Kpop CDs, sim games, cosplay items and items that they see in the anime they watch but have a hard time finding in the States. (and no, I don't want to date an Asian because I like anime/jpop! I liked Asian guys long before I ever heard of anime/jpop.)
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Campy, Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Horror
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Ambient, Blues, Classical, Dance, Electronic, Industrial, Jazz, Metal, New age, Pop, Punk, Rock, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read  
Classic, Comic, Erotica, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, Home & Garden, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Philosophy, Poetry, Romance, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Laughing, eating, drinking, cuddling, walking, watching Netflix or Hulu plus, hanging with my kid, cooking good foods, procrastinating on homework??? LOL

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Empathy, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Money, Oddities, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For?  
Gentleness, fun loving, open to new experiences, non-controlling, generosity, creativity, sweetness, thoughtfulness, open mindedness, friendliness.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed
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